Dave served in the Royal Navy for 11 years from 1979 to 1990. He was just 19 years old when he went to war on HMS Intrepid during the Falklands conflict in 1982.
鈥淲e were in 鈥淏omb Alley鈥 getting air raids constantly. 鈥榃e saw horrible things. We had survivors of (RFA Sir) Galahad come on ship after she was bombed 鈥 they had 90 per cent burns.
鈥淚t wasn鈥檛 until 20 years after the Falklands that Dave鈥檚 mental health problems began. My family was away at the time 鈥 all of a sudden I started crying, having flashbacks and nightmares. I didn鈥檛 understand what was going on. By then I knew Combat Stress might be able to help so I made contact.鈥
鈥淧TSD is like being in a dark pit - one that has no light or escape. Combat Stress gave me the light to go for. I was broken, they gave me my life back 鈥 they saved me. They gave my wife her husband back and my children their dad back. I owe them everything.鈥
鈥淎fter leaving the Royal Marines, I spent a little bit of time wobbling and adrift. I wanted to be in the Marines forever.
Then the injury came and that meant that I had to leave. That hit me really hard 鈥 I lost the brotherhood and family that I always thought I would have. It was a pretty dark time.
At Turn to Starboard, everyone becomes a team and people get to know each other very quickly. That is what forces life is like when you鈥檙e there. You might move to a new section, troop or unit and you instantly have to bond with each other. On a boat you to do the same and you have be there to back each other up and be strong for each other.
It is vital that charities keep supporting Turn to Starboard. Without the backing of the 麻豆传媒AV and the other charities involved we wouldn鈥檛 be here. I went through the programme and watching other people go through it and to see that smile on their faces is massive.鈥